ext_138505 ([identity profile] antimon.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] calientra 2007-08-27 06:16 pm (UTC)

I dont know ...Don't you count twice?

Most times gender on form sis for statistics, so they can say women get paid less or men die in this job at a higher percentage or our workforce is evenly men and women,. It probably figures into group health insurance rates as well. Not to mention bathroom construction etc.

I try not to think of your gender, because as Susan or AS butterscotch, to me you're the same person, I met you as a man, I'm more familiar with you in that time frame, I'm building up my female presence with you. I guess a lot comes form Initial meeting, because Trickster, I identify with and consider more female.

Your License says female (or least I think you got that resolved) Yet you still have male organs to pee and such. And if this gets too personal just ignore it, I'm not trying to offend, but...Do you stand up and use a stall, or do you sit down like a lady? Do you hesitate before going into a restroom, or do you instantly head twords one, and if so which.

you're at a very in between stage, you're almost gender nutrual, having attributes and thoughts of both. So yes while neither clear gender defines you, both fit to a point. No one needs a full survey for you to describe where you fit, and I don't think you'd be happy being considered as an "other", so I say settle for "both"
and honestly you're better off that way instead of getting singled out as mtf or tg on a from, you never sought out to be in between, you're just not at your destination yet.

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